Authenticity – Letting The Inner You Shine


Mountain-Sunset-ReflectionRemember when life was simple and understandable?  Yeah, neither do I.  As reality would have it, we exist in a world of context, image and ambiguity.  Some by choice, other by perception.  Where does that leave authenticity?  Answer, you and me.  It is incumbent upon each of us to project our authentic self.  And it is when we are most still that clarity and awareness reveal themselves to us.

We must first acknowledge and accept that we are all very complex beings.  We value, we believe, we hope, we fear, we love, we avoid, we seek, we appreciate, we contemplate, we aspire, we interact, we influence, we anticipate and we pray… that others understand and respect us.

Given the hodgepodge of mixed messages we emit to the world in a continuous fashion, it is no surprise that misunderstanding occurs on a very regular and frequent basis.  And what results is tension, confusion, anxiety, fear and even depression.  Just to be clear, I’m describing the emotions each of us experience as we live our lives while striving to reveal ourselves to the world.

Much of life’s stress can be channeled, perhaps even avoided, if we can truly look within ourselves to identify the person in the mirror.  Self_ImageHow we are ‘wired’, what we believe, where we are going and what is our goal.  Man, if we don’t know this, how do we expect anyone else to figure it out?

The best advice I’ve ever discovered is, “To thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man.” – William Shakespeare

This is not rocket science, people.  It is pure and unadulterated common sense, yet it goes without heed by millions on a daily basis for all eternity.  Self-awareness is the key to happiness and happiness means something uniquely distinct to each of us.  Self-awareness alone, however, does not lift the fog of life.  It must be coupled and forever joined with courage; the courage to live your conscience and core values without apology and certainly without hesitation.

“Profound truths such as trust, relationships, harmony, happiness, respect, dignity and motivation all become squarely within our grasp as human beings, once self-awareness and courage are lifted from the toolbox of life and used as a habit in each of our lives.”

BalancePersonally, I’ve found that I am most happy when the reality of my life is in balance and harmony with my core values and faith.  I live to help others, to generate good will, to share positive energy, to be a happy and content person, to experience the world on my terms, to believe and practice my faith, and of course, to write.  All that I am is but a glimmer of the man I want to be; and that pursuit keeps me going like the energizer bunny, non-stop.

So, do yourself (and the world) a favor and get to know yourself before crafting that image, creating that context and eradicating that ambiguity that others see as you.  Focus on who you want to be and not what others believe you should be.  Strive to project the image of your spirit and aura and most importantly, be honest with yourself.  It is only then that Truth will reveal itself to you.

 

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About MW Cerkas

Compassion for People, Passion for Writing, Living my Conscience; "Look for the Good, Always" Positive, Creative, Seasoned Writer, Leader, Marketer, Authentic Spirit, Entrepreneur. Continuously seeking the GOOD in others and how to HELP them. Paying it Forward, Preparing for Eternity. Be well!

Posted on April 30, 2015, in General, Natural Beauty, Personal Growth, Philosophy, Truths, Videos and tagged , , , , , , . Bookmark the permalink. 1 Comment.

  1. Thank you for this wonderful reminder that life is to be lived to the fullest.
    I really enjoyed the video ‘The man I want to be’!

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